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What I call My Life - AdrianWhen you have nothing to lose, you'll show your true character... April 24 The 12 Golden Rules for MPsThe elections have come and gone and we now have 222 MPs to represent us in Parliament. This time round, we have a lot of new faces who are first time MPs while there is also a good number of MPs who have served several terms (including those who have served too many terms). Irrespective of whether they are old or new faces, what these 222 people do or don't do will affect the future of the country and all Malaysians. While, they as MPs, should know how to play their proper role (otherwise, they're not fit for the position), it is nevertheless worthwhile highlighting to them what the Rakyat expects of them, just to make sure that we are all on the same page. I've listed down here my expectations which I've called the "The 12 Golden Rules for MPs" Here's my list of the "Golden Rules" :
April 16 Why Nice Guys Finish Last!I’ll give it to you straight up! Here’s my
view on why nice guys finish last….sure you’ll finish some day but its
not what most of you want today! So for my friends (you know who you
are), this is for you….. Integrity & Confidence: Girls like the chase just as much as we do! Friend Zone - don’t waste your time Don’t be too picky July 19 Football: Self-inflicted fall from graceCommercialization and politicization cause of
decline
Malaysians in general and football fans in particular are deeply disappointed with the dismal performance of the national team in the on-going Asian Cup, which the country is co-hosting. We have been thrashed by teams like China and Uzbekistan who are rather new comers in international soccer scene. The FAM should take collective responsibility for the debacle in the current Asian Cup . The whole committee should follow Tengku Abdullah’s footsteps and make way for new people to take over so that they can bring necessary new changes for the good of football in the country. There is no doubt that the standard of football has been deteriorating over these years. From being an Asian power in the sixties we have been reduced, or rather reduced ourselves, to a shameful position in the most popular sport in the world. Countries which were unknown entities then have overtaken us to levels beyond our reach. We are now far behind Thailand, Singapore and Indonesia. Where have we gone wrong? The two main causes of our continuing failure are politicization and commercialization of football and sports in general. Like in all the fields sports too is being seen as money spinning enterprise where professionalism, quality, national pride and ethics of the game take a back stage compared to monetary gains. Politicization of football has resulted in favoritism rather than merit being the more important criteria in the selection of players and officials. There is general skepticism on whether the best get selected to represent the nation. We have been focusing on the building of sophisticated sports complexes to host the various international tournaments. In fact we have gained a reputation internationally as good and efficient organizers of these tournaments. In that enthusiasm we have missed the main target that is to develop the sport among our own youth who have likewise become good spectators. Despite its popularity, football in one of the cheapest games, that is affordable by the masses even in poor countries. All that is needed is a field that is a permanent one time investment, a ball and a pair of boots. Unfortunately playing fields which were easily and freely available to our youth during the sixties and seventies when we were an Asian football giant are hard to come by these days. Development has taken heavy toll on football by eliminating all available fields. They have been replaced with magnificent mega structures, shopping complexes and stadiums especially in the major towns and cities. This in turn has transformed our youth from being active players to active spectators of football being hosted in the various modern stadiums. In the final outcome it is the organizers who stand to be the gainers, reaping huge profits from hosting the various tournaments. Commercialization of the sport had dealt a great blow to its development. We do not need sophisticated and high-tech sports complexes as they are beyond the means of the vast majority of our youths. The single most important means of developing football is to take the game to the masses all over the country. Playing fields must be made available to them freely in schools and districts all over. Selection of the players must be solely on merit not on favoritism. Officials well qualified in the game should be selected and
given the freedom to manage the teams more professionally without undue
interference. We have the money and the talent, all we need is the will to get dedicated and loyal officials, managers and coaches who are genuinely interested to bring honor and glory, not for them but, for the nation. Until we find these leaders, which appears to be a formidable task, we have to be contended being mere spectators, at the most organizers, of international football tournaments. In the meantime our aspirations of qualifying for the FIFA World Cup finals will only be a dream. May 20 Is Life Fair?Yes - Coz its what you make of it No - Coz fairness is not always (if ever) rewarded.... Life is not fair..... - if you see young children losing their innocent lives daily in Iraq (or anywhere else in the world) - when you have to deal with corporate bullshit & politics - if you-know-who dives to win a penalty in an EPL soccer match... - if the corrupted rich gets richer the dirty way... So yeah, if you look around..you'll find that life is probably not fair..people get away with vicious crime all the time...... Life is fair..... - if you focus on what you can control..... - to me..if I focus on my own goals and the people close to me Its fair if you focus on your own life...but to do that you have to be a selfish prick. Am I? No, but I do try to focus on the things I can control. In life shit happens....often there's nothing you can do about it. As I reach (or am in) my mid 20's, I've learned to distinguish between what is important and what's not important to worry about. I worry about.... - my health - my family and the people I love - my career (whats within my control) - my relationship with God I don't worry about... - corporate bullshit - pleasing the world - what others are doing - what others have - misfortunes (they just happen) It sickens me to see people getting away with crime but I find peace knowing that one sweet day....justice will prevail! :D My advice is to focus and worry about the things that you care about and can control! Try to "ignore" what's out of your control unless you need to face them. February 23 Chinese New Year Celebration -- A PoemThe breeze is carrying a message, A message that you and I have been waiting for to hear again, A message that will unite you and I, A message of happiness and joy. The streets in the town are slowly changing, Slowly changing into new faces, New faces that are so red, So red that they look cheerfully happy and blessed. The plane is flying across continents, The train is speeding through countries, The bus is crossing over cities, And they meet at one agreed destination. The house is not quiet anymore, There are whispering and talking everywhere, There are giggling and laughing everywhere, The house is not empty anymore. The cheers echo through the air, And the breeze is carrying a message, A message saying you and I have reunited, A message of happiness and joy. |
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